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Knowing God intimately is one of the most beautiful experiences known to mankind. Nothing can compare to the fullness of what God can offer you. Sex, drugs, people, money, and other sources of emotional highs and safety can’t compare.
When I first got saved, I was shy, insecure, depressed, and scared of being my true self. I was in a bad relationship and smoking weed mildly to feel confident and aware of my emotions. One day God spoke to my spirit and said, if you give up these temporary solutions I will give you a permanent fix. I was nervous, but I said yes. I said Yes to God being the only thing I was dependent on for my identity. He took me on a journey of healing my insecurities, releasing idols, breaking my toxic generational patterns, removing my fears, speaking to me in my dreams, and teaching me that He was my father who loved me.
I was like a garden that He was removing the weeds, so the seeds He planted would bare fruit without being suffocated. "Other seeds fell among thorns that grew up and choked out the tender plants. Still other seeds fell on fertile soil, and they produced a crop that was thirty, sixty, and even a hundred times as much as had been planted! Anyone with ears to hear should listen and understand.” Matthew 13
I’m so thankful for God. As a single woman, He revealed men I would have dated that were wolves in sheep clothing. He has revealed friends that had an impure heart and bad intentions for me. He has given me dreams about tests and how to study. God has helped me avoid problems at work with dreams. In addition, He has open my eyes to impure pieces of my own heart that needed to be healed and matured. It’s because of my journey in getting to know Christ that this website exists – He literally taught me everything I’m sharing with you.
How I got to know God better:
When I first got saved, I realized that I didn’t know if God was real. I asked him to help me know if he was truly real or fake. God answered me. He sent me three signs which I still doubted.
Then, God spoke to me audibly. He told me: “If I didn’t make you wait you wouldn’t have prayed. Make sure you pray from now on.”
So, that’s what I started to do even if I didn’t pray for a long time. Since then, I got to know God more intimately by being consistent. Some days, I have time to worship and mediate for hours! And some days, I’m so busy that my only personal time with God is in the car, getting ready, and as I lay down to sleep. Despite the time, I have always given him my best. And God knows my heart is to give him my best.
How can you know God personally?
You can get to know God better by spending time with God, reading the word, seeking mentors, and doing everything possible to grow in spiritual understanding. Here is a detailed list with verses to help you get to know God more personally.
1. Seek God with ALL your heart not time
As long as you give God your BEST, you are doing good enough. You can read the scriptures, pray, worship, and do everything better and longer than everyone else, but without a pure heart before God it means nothing. If you have the wrong heart you are like a Pharisee that wants to “look holy” rather than a humble man that is “truly holy” because they tried their best. Remember, “you will find him if you seek him with all your heart and with all your soul.” Jeremiah 29:13
My favorite story in the Bible to demonstrate “seeking with all our heart and finding God” despite imperfections is King David. He plotted to have his lover’s husband killed. God did punish him for His actions. But, God still counted him righteous because “He was a man after God’s heart.” He was forgiven because He truly loved God, repented, and changed His ways.
2. Spend time with God
In order to pass a test you have to spend time studying, reading, and listening to your professor. The key for you to pass “is spending time getting to know the material more.” You must do the same in you walk with God. Of course, if everyday was ideal we should spend as much time in a quiet room by ourselves reading, praying, worshipping, etc. However, spending time with God looks different for different people due to their life responsibilities (kids, jobs, etc.).
There is no perfect formula to get close to him. You can spend time with God by thinking about scriptures while you’re at work. You can spend time with God by listening to worship music and praising him while driving. Just give God your best which will look different for everyone!
"Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will." Romans 12:2
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3. Read the Bible
Hearing God’s voice and following his direction is hard when you can’t discern if you’re hearing Satan voice, your own thoughts, OR God. The key to understanding how God thinks and behaves is in the Bible. The Bible gives us a glimpse of God’s character which gives us a Holy standard for our own behaviors. There is always at least one biblical characters that has been through a situation that is very similar to yours! Using their stories as a guide can help us live holier lives.
“So faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.” Romans 10:17
4. Seek Wise counsel
Christian mentorship is very important while getting closer to God. Someone with a mature walk can help you pass through issues quickly and with more ease. In my journey, I found myself having a lot of dreams that came true. I didn’t really know who to ask for help. In my dreams, God would warn me about people, show me areas of myself and the hearts of others’ that needed healing, and then He directed me to pray. I had to learn much of this myself.. But, you don’t have to.
I suggest speaking to your leaders in church to guide you and ensure you have a SOLID biblical perspective to endure the ups and downs of life.
5. Get Healing
You can’t SEE God clearly and you can’t avoid sin if your vision is polluted with negative and burdensome emotions. You need a pure heart to pursue uninterrupted connection with God. “No one who abides in him keeps on sinning; no one who keeps on sinning has either seen him or known him.” 1 John 3:6
Do you need emotional healing? It’s imperative you seek healing because you need a sober mind to seek, see, and hear God. Related QUIZ: Are You Carrying Emotional Baggage? “Your eye is the lamp of your body. When your eyes are healthy, your whole body also is full of light. But when they are unhealthy, your body also is full of darkness. See to it, then, that the light within you is not darkness.” – Luke 11:34-35
6. Fervently Pray
God will answer your prayers if you ask him from a pure heart. Don’t be afraid to wait, he will answer even if the answer is no or wait. “And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him.” 1 John 5:14-15 Related Article: 5 Secrets for Powerful Prayers That Get Answered!
7. Have faith
It might take time for God to answer your prayers. It may take time for you to BELIEVE that you are close to God. But God is always there and He is ALWAYS speaking to you about things. Sometimes, He has to teach you simple things before He can explain complicated things. Trust that God wants to bless you. “Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4
"If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” -Matthew 17:20
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8. Be Consistent
Don’t quit. Keep going. Even when it’s hard. My faith has been purified as I learned discipline and consistency. It has been such a HARD journey to believe God was good when everything was falling apart around me. I have literally felt crazy as I clung to His written word or prophetic words he has spoken to me.
Satan has always tried to offer me the easy way out and a watered down version of what I want. It has been hard work to say no to him over and over again. It has been hard work to TRUST that God’s plans for me and my loved ones are good even when it doesn’t seem like it. But it is in THESE moments that we build spiritual muscles and learn to TRULY love God.
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9. Practice Listening to God’s Voice
God can speak to us through audibly, through dreams, visions, people, the Bible, and even donkeys! The key to hearing God is to learning to LISTEN to him in everything you do. Here are 22 signs God is speaking to you!
10. Learn His Character
God is always good. God withholds no good thing. God has predestined good things for you. God desires for all of his children to have a seat in heaven even the pedophiles, murderers, and rapists. If you TRULY believe these biblical promises despite being in a horrible situation that means you know your Papa in Heaven.
Prayer to Know God More Intimately
Lord, I believe your words in the Bible are true. I believe that the more I seek you with all my heart is the more I find you. So I ask you to create a pure heart in me, a heart that longs to hear your voice and know your ways. Father, remove selfish ambition from me. May I seek you for the victory of your kingdom and not for my own personal gain. I ask that I would have dreams, visions, and prophetic encounters to understand you more. I ask that you give me a heart to LOVE what you love. And a heart to HATE what you hate. May I love humanity and wish for their salvation as much as you. May I be compassionate to people as I war against the evil in this world. Father, give me spiritual eyes to see how close we are. I am your sheep. I hear your voice. I long to do only what you ask. Thank you father that Jesus showed me the way to intimacy with you. I love you. Amen.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who has access to God?
It amazes me that EVERYONE has the opportunity to have a deep relationship with God if they surrender their souls to his leadership. He begins with rescuing you from sin, cleaning you up from the filth of sin, and then perfecting you to live as an ambassador on this earth. The truth is, God wants to raise up Pauls, Peters, Johns, and Davids on this earth. He wants powerful women and men that HEAR, OBEY, STUDY, and SUBMIT to God.
The love that I have experienced is available for EVERYONE. This is GREAT news for you. If you desire to know God, He will pour out his love for you to experience it personally. God’s desire to know us at a heart level has NEVER changed. He wanted that in the Old and New Testament.
- In the New Testament God states: “So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” Luke 11:9
- “But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.” 1 Corinthians 8:3
- In the Old Testament God states: “But if from there you seek the LORD your God, you will find him if you seek him with all your heart and with all your soul.” Deuteronomy 4:29
What is the purpose of knowing God?
The purpose of knowing God is finding completion and true friendship. We often look to our human relationships, friendships, and our work to make us happy. But we can never find complete happiness in people, situations, or things. Earthly treasures and relationships are suppose to be the icing on top of the cake!
The truth is, most of us are looking to be loved in such a deep and powerful way, but no one can ease that longing except the person that created us. Our creator knows every strand of hair on our head.
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Is God a personal God?
Absolutely! God is very personal with me and answers everyone of my questions and prayers. He doesn’t do it right away, but he does it. There have been times when I’ve been so insecure about my hair and random strangers would keep complimenting me. God cares about EVERY intimate detail and He wants to nurture our fears, cares, and emotions.
What is the difference between knowing about God and knowing God personally?
Knowing God personally helps us to understand the scripture through love rather than passionless obedience. In contrast, the Pharisee’s were excellent students of the Old Testament. They could recite it and knew every scripture. However, they didn’t understand the scripture. They didn’t know who God was in the story. They saw God as a respecter of titles, positions, and appearances. But God doesn’t care about how well the performance went if you killed people to get there and your heart was corrupt while on stage.
What is the Importance of knowing God?
God literally helps me to avoid complicated issues, heal traumatic wounds, and live a healthy life. I talk about the 8 benefits that we receive when we start a relationship with God in this article.
What’s the difference between feeling God vs knowing God?
Many mistake feeling God with knowing God. Everyone has access to feeling his presence near them and within them. God doesn’t want to withhold himself from anyone. But, you having cool experiences is NOT the same as knowing God. Knowing God involves understanding God’s motives, His plans for the earth, His heart for prayer, and having a deeper revelation of how His character in the Bible is still applicable in your everyday life. You will develop a deeper understanding of who He is comes with quality time spent and years of wisdoms gained from experience with God.
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What is the difference between knowing God and believing in God?
The more that you know God, it will allow you to believe in him even more. For instance, if you know that he will answer your prayers… It will allow you to wait a year for a prayer to come to pass. In my life, I’ve had dreams about men being a bad match for me. This was frustrating because I wanted to be in a relationship so badly. But, I know that God withholds no good thing. Therefore, I believe He will provide in the right time and I continue to wait on God for the right person and moment.
How to know that God is speaking to you?
You can be fully sure that God is speaking to you, when His direction, interactions, and revelations line up with biblical principles. God speaks to heal, encourage, protect, and rescue His children from the pain and sin. There are four steps that I suggest to discern if God is speaking to you. The steps include understanding God’s character, purifying your heart, testing the voice, and receiving Christ. Read more on this topic in the article 4 Biblical Secrets To Discern The Voice of God!
8 Verses Explaining How To Get To Know God
1. “And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.” Hebrews 11:6
2. If you follow God, He will always be with you. Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” – John 8:12
3. God promised to be there if we seek him and He doesn’t lie. “God is not man, that he should lie, or a son of man, that he should change his mind. Has he said, and will he not do it? Or has he spoken, and will he not fulfill it?” Numbers 23:19
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4. Sin hinders our relationship with God. “No one who abides in him keeps on sinning; no one who keeps on sinning has either seen him or known him.” 1 John 3:6
5. “We are from God. Whoever knows God listens to us; whoever is not from God does not listen to us. By this we know the Spirit of truth and the spirit of error. Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.” 1 John 4:6-7
6. “I love those who love me, and those who seek me diligently find me.” Proverbs 8:17
7. “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart.” Jeremiah 29:11-13
8. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6
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What hinders intimacy with God?
Distrust of God, fear, self-hate, sin, pride, pain, selfishness, manipulation, control, anxiety, addictions, and escapism hinder our relationship with God. Why? Because those coping mechanisms cause us to operate in the flesh and we then refuse to surrender our weaknesses to God. Those strategies involve dealing with pain without God’s help. When we try to deal with pain ourselves it is pride. Pride hinders love and intimacy with God.
7 Signs of intimacy with God
1. You hate sin, but you are filled with compassion for sinners.
2. You spend time in prayer, worship, and biblical study.
3. You have a still and calm mind and spirit
4. You don’t pretend to have it all together
5. You wait on God’s direction
6. You aren’t better than anyone and you’re humble
7. You allow God to strip you of self-hate, pride, pain, and anything that hinders intimacy
7 Benefits of intimacy with God
1. Hear God’s voice and perspective on issues
2. Experience God’s peace that surpasses all understanding
3. Freedom from fear, pain, and painful emotional baggage
4. Clarity of mind to pursue your purpose and intimacy with God
5. Deeper understanding of God’s Character
6. Revelation of Bible from your own daily experiences
7. Receiving a Good father that loves you unconditionally!