14 Prayers for My Future Husband

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God inspired these prayers for your future husband. He wants you to be ready to partner with a spiritually mature and growth-oriented man. He wants you to be with a man that helps you build.

God wants to bless you with a healthy relationship with a man that loves you.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:1)

1. Prayer for Faith to Believe in God’s Goodness

Ask God for the strength to believe that he wants to bless you with a Godly man. Also, for the faith to believe that YOUR husband exists. And lastly, pray for the perseverance and patience to wait for him.

God, I pray for your strength to believe that you have a good man for me. Jehovah Rapha, thank you for removing the pain of past relationships and getting me ready for the right one. I thank you that you have made me beautiful and flawless in your sight O’ Lord. I accept that my husband will be drawn to my gentle spirit and my unique design. O’ Lord, strip insecurity from me and the need for a man to make me feel beautiful and loved. Thank you God, because you are strengthening me to wait for the best. Thank you God, because you’re giving me the patience to wait for a man that follows your voice. I trust you to lead me to my other half. And I trust that you withhold NO good thing from me. I am excited because in your timing, I will be married. It will honor you. And I will raise a family that also loves you. Amen.

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2. Prayer for A Future Husband

O’ Lord, thank you for putting excitement in my spirit for my Godly match. I thank you that you see the end from the beginning and you have good things in store for me. I ask that you’d remove any fear, pain, and unhealed areas in my heart. Father, help me to be whole and secure in you, so I don’t depend on my husband to be my source of love, life, and happiness. You make me complete God. You make me whole. I thank you God, for loving me to the depth of my core. I ask that my husband would experience the depth and width of your love as well.

I ask that we would both understand your love so much that real love would be our standard. I pray that we wouldn’t be emotionally attracted to partners that are not for us. Thank you for giving us strength and confidence to trust your warnings that someone is not our spouse. Protect us from counterfeits, toxic relationships, and partners that would seek to harm us. I ask for discernment and revelation, so we can see the depths of their heart. I trust you to guide my dating life Father and I put my heart in your hands. I believe you will guide us both to each other because we compliment each other. Thank you for helping us to know our personalities, likes, dislikes, strengths and weaknesses.

Thank you father because in our time of singleness you are boldly equipping us. You’re teaching us about our calling and how we can love the body of Christ. Help us to both begin walking in our Godly purpose. Help us to hear your direction to walk in the power of the Gospel. I desire to be a testimony of your love God. I also desire that my future marriage to magnify your name and promote the kingdom of God. Thank you for teaching my husband and I about the Bible and loving others. I’m excited to be in a relationship that is ordained by you God! I trust you Abba. Amen.

8 Things to Pray for Future Husband

You should say prayers that focus on the spiritual maturity of you and your future husband. And you should pray that you are both in God’s divine timing to meet, date, and get married.

You should pray that your husband:

Is protected from Satanic temptations: O’ Lord, I ask that you would protect my husband from the schemes of the enemy. I ask that you would keep him pure and righteous in your sight. I declare that he has laser vision and focus to follow your leading, right now.
Submits to the leading of the Lord: Father in heaven, thank you for guiding my husband into your will. I ask that he would have clear discernment, so he doesn’t stray from your path.
Has a pure heart: O’ Lord, I ask that you search my husband’s heart and cleanse it from pride, anger, lust, rebellion, deceit, fear, and control. Thank you Father because as I pray he is letting go of control and dying to his flesh.
Is filled with fruits of the spirit: Abba father, thank you for filling my husband with “….love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, [and] self-control…” – Galatians 5:22-23
Has financial and career success: O’ Lord, bless my husband with promotions, jobs, and favor so that he can do your will. I ask that he would work unto you and not unto man. I thank you that he is stable and can keep a job. I thank you that he is financially wise, saves, and a cheerful giver.
Can make good decisions: Father, I desire a man that seeks you for decisions and moves swiftly at the sound of your voice. Thank you father that you are preparing my husband’s heart and mind to make great decisions that honor you and brings good fruits.
Has great community: I thank you papa for surrounding my husband with good family, friends, and spiritual mentors. I thank you that he is accountable to them and he considers their guidance. I ask that he would feel loved and seen by his community. Thank you that he hears their wisdom and it’s guiding him in the right direction.
Will fight for connection: O’ Lord, I pray that my husband would become bold and focused in his pursuit of you. I thank you that his submission to you will lead him to me. I ask that he wouldn’t waste time and he wouldn’t let insecurities or anything hinder him from fiercely coming after me.

11. Prayer for My Future Husband to Find Me

Abba father, thank you for making me in your image. Thank you for protecting my heart till you introduce me to the right man. Block my husband’s eyes and plans to pursue the wrong women. Steer his heart and path to me. Remove impatience within us and help us to avoid settling. You cover me O’ Lord and I trust you to lead me to my partner. Illuminate me to my husband God. Help him to see the unknown and hidden parts of me. Reveal to him my traits that would make me a good helpmate to him. Keep my heart Lord and help me to only awaken love at its proper time. Thank you that he will find me and see me. I’m excited God because you are a promise keeper and you never put the righteous to shame. I trust you Abba. Amen!

12. Prayer to Become Healed Before Marriage

Father search my heart for any brokenness, pain, and impurity. Rid me of pride, fear, anger, selfishness, and anything that hinders love. Help me to be a strong and faith filled woman before my husband comes. I ask that I would love you more than a man O' Lord. Thank you for opening my sight, so I don't accept a man that doesn't love you. I ask for the strength to stand firm in faith for a Godly man that is obedient to the word of God. Thank you for strength God. Thank you for your healing God. I love you,  amen!

Too many marriages end because couples were not properly prepared for relationships. We tend to accept partners, friendships, and situations based on the level of healing that we have. From a broken place, we enter into relationships that disrupt our peace, distract us from God, and delay our purpose. Ultimately, many enter unhealthy relationships because they were chasing the desires of their heart and not God.

Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4

I accepted men that were insecure, feared rejection, and weren’t able to take personal responsibility. I would try to make them feel loved and feed into their insecurities because it made me feel secure. I loved proving to men that I was the most powerful love they’d ever feel and I’d never leave them. It made me feel loved to make them feel loved. However, I’m not God and when I fell short they reverted to their broken tendencies.

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13. Prayer to Avoid Idolizing Relationships

I would seek relationships that filled my emotional needs. God taught me that this was idolatry. God wanted to heal my loneliness, insecurities, pain, and fears. He wanted to be the source of life, joy, and love in my life. My advice for you is to pursue inner healing, so that you can find a man that is on the same wave length as you. And secondly, fast and pray for a Godly man.

All I need is you God. You fill me up. You bring my soul in rest and restore my brokenness. Hallelujah, you are the Lord that allows my cup of gladness to over flow. I praise you O' Lord. Help me to know that you're all I need. Help me to cherish and love you God. I desire to delight in you. I desire to want you more than anything the world has to offer. Thank you for purifying my heart God. Thank you for helping me to waiting patiently, faithfully, and confidently for my future husband. Your word said that you withhold NO GOOD thing. Therefore, I agree that if He isn't here that it isn't time. I thank you for everything I have in my life right now. Help me to be grateful. Also, help me to be excited, but not impatient. I love you O'Lord. Amen.

14. Prayers For My Future Husband

Thank you for bringing a Godly man into my life God. I ask for the love, gentleness, honesty, and strength to love him as you do. I humble myself before you Lord. And I ask that I could be humble in his sight as well. Thank you for molding me to be a proverbs 31 woman that brings my husband honor. O’ Lord, thank you for doing the same work in his heart as well. I am thankful that you are causing us to be equally yoked, so we can walk together. With you God, the two of us are powerful. And we will honor you with our lives, family, and love. Amen.